Review – Love Her or Lose Her by Tessa Bailey


A totally blow-your-mind phenominal spicy rom-com just published on January 14, 2020:


by Tessa Bailey



About Love Her or Lose Her

New York Times bestselling author Tessa Bailey returns with a unique, sexy romantic comedy about a young married couple whose rocky relationship needs a serious renovation…

Rosie and Dominic Vega are the perfect couple: high school sweethearts, best friends, madly in love. Well, they used to be anyway. Now Rosie’s lucky to get a caveman grunt from the ex-soldier every time she walks in the door. Dom is faithful and a great provider, but the man she fell in love with ten years ago is nowhere to be found. When her girlfriends encourage Rosie to demand more out of life and pursue her dream of opening a restaurant, she decides to demand more out of love, too. Three words: marriage boot camp.

          Never in a million years did Rosie believe her stoic, too-manly-to-emote husband would actually agree to relationship rehab with a weed-smoking hippie. Dom talking about feelings? Sitting on pillows? Communing with nature? Learning love languages? Nope. But to her surprise, he’s all in, and it forces her to admit her own role in their cracked foundation. As they complete one ridiculous—yet surprisingly helpful—assignment after another, their remodeled relationship gets stronger than ever. Except just as they’re getting back on track, Rosie discovers Dom has a secret… and it could demolish everything.






Stop what you are doing right now!  Read this post!  Are you married or in a relationship?  Do you feel like your partner is not the same person you fell in love with, or that your relationship has fizzled out?  Well, you are in luck, look no further and grab a copy of LOVE HER OR LOSE HER right now.  Don’t go looking for online reading or self help books, this book is all you need.

Tessa Bailey has written a wonderful book about a flat-lined relationship that is on the brink of disaster.  Rosie and Dominic still love each other but its not the same.  Other than the weekly sex, they barely talk.  (Hey, at least they are having sex, right?) When Rosie can’t live this way anymore and packs up to leave, Dominic is not about to lose the only woman he ever loved and agrees to the craziest of couples therapy.  (I didn’t think he would either). The story goes from there and believe me, you find out the both of them have a little bit of explaining to do.  You’ve just got to pick it up to find out the rest.

Told in an alternating perspective style (here’s you learn why communication is key and how we totally misread each other as humans) with an added touch of spice (oh this spice, yeah, get a glass of milk because this one is hot) I guarantee you will devour this one as quickly as I did.  I wish I could get my husband to read it. (I think I may have to tell him there are huge references to Star Wars in it so that he will pick it up.  NO, there are NO references to Star Wars, but I know my husband and thats all that will work on him.  I think I may need to put a Darth Vader mask sticker over Dom’s head on the cover to get this to happen).

Tessa Bailey blew it out of the water with this one, I highly recommend this read.  The writing is smooth and flawless and you will be pulled right in, so don’t make any plans when you decide to start.  And well, contrary to what I said above, even if you are not in a relationship or things are going well with you and your partner, pick it up anyway.  The spice alone in it is worth the read.  (And if you know me, you know thats usually not my thing, thats how good this is.)

Thank you to @avonbooks, @tessabaileyisanauthor and @TLCBookTours for my gifted copy of this book.









Purchase Links

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IndieBound  |   iBooks  |  Kobo





About  Tessa Bailey

Tessa Bailey is originally from Carlsbad, California. The day after high school graduation, she packed her yearbook, ripped jeans and laptop, driving cross-country to New York City in under four days.

Her most valuable life experiences were learned thereafter while waitressing at K-Dees, a Manhattan pub owned by her uncle. Inside those four walls, she met her husband, best friend and discovered the magic of classic rock, managing to put herself through Kingsborough Community College and the English program at Pace University at the same time. Several stunted attempts to enter the work force as a journalist followed, but romance writing continued to demand her attention.

She now lives in Long Island, New York with her husband of eleven years and seven-year-old daughter. Although she is severely sleep-deprived, she is incredibly happy to be living her dream of writing about people falling in love.




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Serious book loving critical care RN dealing with RA, being married to a surgeon, my 2 crazy dogs, an obsession with crafting, and a mad desire to swing golf clubs (although quite poorly).

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